Saturday, December 24, 2016

Advent Reflection 2016


The year is drawing to a close while the Advent season prepares us for another new beginning. I decided to draw some time out from the hustles during this Advent to pen down some thoughts germinated from the reflection on my journey through the Jubilee Year of Mercy.

On the path involving consistent hard work, I wish to always reflect upon the precious inspiration drawn from the tessellated floor of Basilica of San Marco. Though my appreciation of the art of this sacred building has been limited by scanty historical knowledge, the tessellated floor has left me with a profound message. I was overwhelmed by such a beautiful delicate artwork which was formed by thousand or even million pieces of tiny marble that had been carefully cut and symmetrically arranged into a geometrical picture. Contemplating on this artwork led me into a deeper reflection on the value of maintaining the integrity and consistency in doing good work.

What I observed from San Marco Basilica was the constellation of finest works by artists over a few centuries. I believe that many of them might not have lived long enough to see the completion of the entire basilica but what made me ponder was what had been their motivation on their journeys to keep up with good work when they might not have seen the overall outcome. I imagined that some might have spent their entire life humbly laying a small part of tessellated floor. Blessed are the hands which had done good work consistently! Should none of them kept up with consistent fine work, we would never see the existence of this magnificent basilica!

There is a temptation to lose heart when long-term efforts do not seem to pay off and it might not be easy to find meaning from hard works that deemed as futile when we have yet to see the full picture. Our consistency is constantly being challenged! In this fast paced world whereby works are often judged by the parameter of successful outcome and time efficiency, the small steps of consistent efforts might not be highly valued though they are the key to success. The tessellated floor has just reminded me of these humble steps as the fundamental of great work.

Another positive thought inspired by the tessellated floor is the belief that our contribution, though too insignificant to be considered a success, might have been the blessings to many others. For instance, a doctor might not be able to pursue his career path as a consultant due to life circumstances, but the daily clinical work done with integrity throughout his entire lifetime might have been great blessings to his patients. In this Jubilee Year of Mercy, I learnt that doing good work with integrity is also a way of mercy. It has also been a great consolation for me to realise that our hard work and even the unrecognised efforts are not in vain in the perspective of eternity.
(1 Corinthians 15:58 – ‘Therefore, my beloved brothers, be firm, steadfast, always fully devoted to the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labour is not in vain.’)

In this Advent season, I have written myself a poem (A Song of Advent):

Do not lose hope, my soul, amidst fruitless seasons

Do not lose joy while going through dull humdrum days 


Amidst the clouds of doubt, let us hold strong to the faith.

 Remember the parable of weed and grain, 

Patience stands the test of time. 


Let us continue the good work of plowing and sowing even in the season of dryness 

Ignite the inner light,

We wait for the coming of Christ.



My dear friends who have read this article, I wish that you have a meaningful Christmas and Happy New Year! No matter what battles are we fighting, may we always hold on to the faith, hope and charity on our paths. 

Saturday, October 22, 2016

Scripture as Our Guidance

As for you, continue with what you have learned and what has been entrusted to you, knowing from whom you received it.

Besides, you have known the Scriptures from childhood; they will give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching, refuting error, for correcting and training in Christian life. Through Scripture the man of God is made expert and thoroughly equipped for every good work.

In the presence of God and Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead, and by the hope I have of his coming and his kingdom, I urge you to preach the Word, in season and out of season, reproving, rebuking or advising, always with patience and providing instruction.

~ 2Timothy 3:14-17


Saturday, September 10, 2016

Being Happy - by Pope Francis


"You may have defects, be anxious and sometimes live irritated, but do not forget that your life is the greatest enterprise in the world. Only you can prevent it from going into decadence. There are many that need you, admire you and love you.

I would like to remind you that being happy is not having a sky without storms, or roads without accidents, or work without fatigue, or relationships without disappointments.
Being happy is finding strength in forgiveness, hope in one’s battles, security at the stage of fear, love in disagreements.

Being happy is not only to treasure the smile, but that you also reflect on the sadness.

It is not just commemorating the event, but also learning lessons in failures.

It is not just having joy with the applause, but also having joy in anonymity.

Being happy is to recognize that it is worthwhile to live, despite all the challenges, misunderstandings and times of crises.

Being happy is not inevitable fate, but a victory for those who can travel towards it with your own being.

Being happy is to stop being a victim of problems but become an actor in history itself.

It is not only to cross the deserts outside of ourselves, but still more, to be able to find an oasis in the recesses of our soul.

It is to thank God every morning for the miracle of life.

Being happy is not being afraid of one's feelings. It is to know how to talk about ourselves. It is to bear with courage when hearing a "no".

It is to have the security to receive criticism, even if is unfair.

It is to kiss the children, pamper the parents, have poetic moments with friends, even if they have hurt us.

Being happy means allowing the free, happy and simple child inside each of us to live; having the maturity to say, "I was wrong"; having the audacity to say, "forgive me".

It is to have sensitivity in expressing, "I need you"; to have the ability of saying, "I love you."

So that your life becomes a garden full of opportunities for being happy...

In your spring-time, may you become a lover of joy. In your winter, may you become a friend of wisdom.

And when you go wrong along the way, you start all over again. Thus you will be more passionate about life.

And you will find that happiness is not about having a perfect life but about using tears to water tolerance, losses to refine patience, failures to carve serenity, pain to lapidate pleasure, obstacles to open the windows of intelligence.

Never give up .... Never give up on the people you love. Never give up from being happy because life is an incredible show.

And you are a special human being!"

- Pope Francis -

Be Patient in Time of Test


Accept all that happens to you, be patient when you are humbled, for as gold is tested in the fire, so those acceptable to God are tested in the crucible of humiliation.
(Sirach 2: 4-5)

Good Friday, 6th April 2012


He has reminded me of LOVE... and amidst all my weaknesses, has given me the strength to FORGIVE and freed me from anger.

The sacrifice of Christ reflects His greatest love for us regardless of our sinfulness.

Cast All Our Cares on Him


I do not know about tomorrow...
If I were to ponder on the uncertainties, I would have been  consumed by worries.
Peace comes from casting our care on Him and trusting that He always has the best plan for us.

"Place all your worries on him since he takes care of you." (1 Peter 5:7)


-20th July 2012

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Joy


While love is the reason to continue the offerings, joy would be the strength to pull through hard times.

We can experience all kinds of pain and torments, but the joy that comes form God keep us persevere.


-10th October 2012

I Have Fought the Good Fight


The reading from 2 Timothy 4: 6-8 has been a consolation to the faithful ones who are dying.

'As for me, I am already poured out as a libation, and the moment of my departure has come, I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there's laid up for me th crown of righteousness with which the Lord, the just judges, will reward me on that day; and not only me, but all those who have longed for his glorious coming.'

May this always reminds us to serve God and follow His way throughout our earthly life so that we, too may feel the same joy like St. Paul upon our graduation day!

-27th October 2013


Serenity of Surrender


'Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.' (Philippians 4: 6-7)

'God understands us to the core because He created us. He feels what we feel, but His vision reaches those places we cannot see.'

-Adapted from Limitless, Chapter 4, Serenity of Surrender by Nick Vujicic
3rd November 2013

Rejoice. Pray. Give Thanks

'Rejoice always, pray without ceasing and give thanks to God at every moment.
This is the will of God, your vocation as Christians.'
(1 Thessalonians 5: 16-18)

Blessed 3rd Sunday of Advent
14th December 2014



Leave the Rooms of Gossips



We could choose to walk out from the room of gossips and go to a beautiful place which offers us peace of mind to accommodate joy and growth.

- 22nd November 2014


Sharing from 'Landscape Crossing' Retreat 2014




Each symbol tells a story in one's life, of shadow or anguish, of light or hope.

We offered them up to God as our prayers.


I decided to share this craft-work given to me by a ovarian cancer survivor who has gone through multiple storms in life.

The green olive plant symbolise peace while the fruits (olives) symbolise joy and love. She created this craft-work to express her wish to bring peace, joy and love to everyone around her.

I was impressed by her saying, 'I am grateful for all the blessings that were given to me and for the many experiences that I have gone through in life. My house is in place. I am ready to go now.'

In her, I see a peaceful and humble spirit who has been holding on to strong faith amidst all storms and a soul who brings hope, love and joy to everyone.


- 8th November 2014


Great is Thy Faithfulness


Have a lovely morning!

'The Lord's acts of mercy are not exhausted.
His compassion is not spent;
They are renewed each morning -- great is your faithfulness.'
(Lamentations 3: 22-23)

-25th October 2014

Be Grateful, 16th October 2014


Whether it has been a good day or a tough day today, let us give thanks to God for all the grace seen or unseen.

Be grateful for the grace to go through the challenges of the day and be thankful that by God's grace, we have made a little improvement each day though we might not have realised it.



Friday, September 9, 2016

God Will Take Care


'Place all your worries on God since He takes care of you.' (1 Peter 5:7)

A Samaritan friend has just reminded me that I have met so many angels when facing obstacles. As I recall the many moments when blessings were received in times of need, I know that the God who care for us has been listening to our daily prayers.

I thank God for the grace to go through challenging days.


- written on 7th October 2014

Learning the Humility of Christ


From the letter of St. Paul to the Philippians 2: 3-4

'Do nothing through rivalry or vain conceit. On the contrary let each of you gently consider the others as more important than yourselves. Do not seek your own interest, but rather that of others.'

May we continue to learn from the humility of Jesus.

A Prayer for Peace


I came across this prayer...

Grant me peace today Lord.
Quiet my heart and spirit.
Let my words be calm and my disposition tranquil.
In times of accord and in times of distress, may I experience peace that passes all understanding, so that I may become a channel of Your peace to others. Amen.

Cherish Good Times

Rococo Garden, Painswick

It's rather easy to go through one of these good times. It's without any struggle, but I just have to simply enjoy this wonderful time!

I believe that we do need some happy moments to stay positive amidst all challenges in life. It's always good to have some good memories to recall during tough times and keep it as a reminder that there is always something good that we could look forward to.

I'm touched that God remember to bless me with happy moments like this.


- written on 24th May 2014

Saying Goodbye and Welcoming Hello

Saying 'goodbye' and welcoming 'hello' are both transitional process in life. I have to admit that it has been a challenging experience to encounter both these concurrently at this juncture.
I find that acknowledging emotions towards loss and allocating some "time-off" to mourn for the goodbye has actually helpful for me to be more readily to cope with new challenges in life while keeping an open mind to say 'hello' to a new life experience has helped me to accept the goodbye and move forwards in life.


- written on 12th June 2014

Dual process model of coping with loss 

Creative Suffering

Suffering can be beneficial when it leads to some kind of "resurrection" in us, when a strength or a sleeping energy in us is aroused, when talents heretofore unknown are recognised, when a clarity about life's purpose and direction becomes keener for us, when a stronger sense of compassion for others deepens in us. There is so much within us that needs to come to life.

Moments of suffering, times of goodbye, can cause us to peer inside our own tombs of unfinishedness or incompleteness and we can discover vast storehouses of resiliency, vitality, fidelity, love and endurance.

- Creative Suffering, Adapted from 'Praying Our Goodbyes' by Joyce Rupp
15th June 2014