Showing posts with label Reflections. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reflections. Show all posts

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Advent Reflection 2016


The year is drawing to a close while the Advent season prepares us for another new beginning. I decided to draw some time out from the hustles during this Advent to pen down some thoughts germinated from the reflection on my journey through the Jubilee Year of Mercy.

On the path involving consistent hard work, I wish to always reflect upon the precious inspiration drawn from the tessellated floor of Basilica of San Marco. Though my appreciation of the art of this sacred building has been limited by scanty historical knowledge, the tessellated floor has left me with a profound message. I was overwhelmed by such a beautiful delicate artwork which was formed by thousand or even million pieces of tiny marble that had been carefully cut and symmetrically arranged into a geometrical picture. Contemplating on this artwork led me into a deeper reflection on the value of maintaining the integrity and consistency in doing good work.

What I observed from San Marco Basilica was the constellation of finest works by artists over a few centuries. I believe that many of them might not have lived long enough to see the completion of the entire basilica but what made me ponder was what had been their motivation on their journeys to keep up with good work when they might not have seen the overall outcome. I imagined that some might have spent their entire life humbly laying a small part of tessellated floor. Blessed are the hands which had done good work consistently! Should none of them kept up with consistent fine work, we would never see the existence of this magnificent basilica!

There is a temptation to lose heart when long-term efforts do not seem to pay off and it might not be easy to find meaning from hard works that deemed as futile when we have yet to see the full picture. Our consistency is constantly being challenged! In this fast paced world whereby works are often judged by the parameter of successful outcome and time efficiency, the small steps of consistent efforts might not be highly valued though they are the key to success. The tessellated floor has just reminded me of these humble steps as the fundamental of great work.

Another positive thought inspired by the tessellated floor is the belief that our contribution, though too insignificant to be considered a success, might have been the blessings to many others. For instance, a doctor might not be able to pursue his career path as a consultant due to life circumstances, but the daily clinical work done with integrity throughout his entire lifetime might have been great blessings to his patients. In this Jubilee Year of Mercy, I learnt that doing good work with integrity is also a way of mercy. It has also been a great consolation for me to realise that our hard work and even the unrecognised efforts are not in vain in the perspective of eternity.
(1 Corinthians 15:58 – ‘Therefore, my beloved brothers, be firm, steadfast, always fully devoted to the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labour is not in vain.’)

In this Advent season, I have written myself a poem (A Song of Advent):

Do not lose hope, my soul, amidst fruitless seasons

Do not lose joy while going through dull humdrum days 


Amidst the clouds of doubt, let us hold strong to the faith.

 Remember the parable of weed and grain, 

Patience stands the test of time. 


Let us continue the good work of plowing and sowing even in the season of dryness 

Ignite the inner light,

We wait for the coming of Christ.



My dear friends who have read this article, I wish that you have a meaningful Christmas and Happy New Year! No matter what battles are we fighting, may we always hold on to the faith, hope and charity on our paths. 

Saturday, September 10, 2016

Joy


While love is the reason to continue the offerings, joy would be the strength to pull through hard times.

We can experience all kinds of pain and torments, but the joy that comes form God keep us persevere.


-10th October 2012

Leave the Rooms of Gossips



We could choose to walk out from the room of gossips and go to a beautiful place which offers us peace of mind to accommodate joy and growth.

- 22nd November 2014


Sharing from 'Landscape Crossing' Retreat 2014




Each symbol tells a story in one's life, of shadow or anguish, of light or hope.

We offered them up to God as our prayers.


I decided to share this craft-work given to me by a ovarian cancer survivor who has gone through multiple storms in life.

The green olive plant symbolise peace while the fruits (olives) symbolise joy and love. She created this craft-work to express her wish to bring peace, joy and love to everyone around her.

I was impressed by her saying, 'I am grateful for all the blessings that were given to me and for the many experiences that I have gone through in life. My house is in place. I am ready to go now.'

In her, I see a peaceful and humble spirit who has been holding on to strong faith amidst all storms and a soul who brings hope, love and joy to everyone.


- 8th November 2014


Friday, September 9, 2016

Cherish Good Times

Rococo Garden, Painswick

It's rather easy to go through one of these good times. It's without any struggle, but I just have to simply enjoy this wonderful time!

I believe that we do need some happy moments to stay positive amidst all challenges in life. It's always good to have some good memories to recall during tough times and keep it as a reminder that there is always something good that we could look forward to.

I'm touched that God remember to bless me with happy moments like this.


- written on 24th May 2014

Saying Goodbye and Welcoming Hello

Saying 'goodbye' and welcoming 'hello' are both transitional process in life. I have to admit that it has been a challenging experience to encounter both these concurrently at this juncture.
I find that acknowledging emotions towards loss and allocating some "time-off" to mourn for the goodbye has actually helpful for me to be more readily to cope with new challenges in life while keeping an open mind to say 'hello' to a new life experience has helped me to accept the goodbye and move forwards in life.


- written on 12th June 2014

Dual process model of coping with loss 

Owning Both Happiness & Sadness As Our Masterpiece

I had a wonderful inspiration this morning as I woke up feeling refreshed and found comfort amidst my grief:

We may also consider owning both our happiness and sadness as like owning a unique masterpiece, not expecting others to take it away from us.

After all, having the potential to feel a wide range of emotions is just human nature. There is no right or wrong but how we manage them matters.

Sadness is painful to be embraced but that is the only way through it that we can be set free.

May we be blessed with the grace to endure and the grace to celebrate happiness.

- written on 12th May 2015

Journeying with the Dying

A reflection of the day after joining palliative round today. We were discussing about loneliness faced by many terminally ill patients and their care-givers.

'One of the most dreadful sufferings in life is finding no support available amidst distress. Loneliness adds more pain in the journey...'

We wonder how we should help these friends/family of ours amidst the toughest time. Our fear includes not knowing what to say, not having answer to difficult questions and fear of revealing our heartfelt sadness. We worry that we might say something not so thoughtful that will hurt them.
I recalled the same anxiety when I was about to pay last visit to my family doctor who suffered from relapsed acute leukemia.

Having gone through some of the distressed moments in grief myself, I realised that being listened to and being remembered in prayers has helped to sustain me in the challenging journey. I always found this heart-warming message whenever I met a Good Samaritan who has lent me a listening ear :'I care. I am here for you. Here is some strength of mine to go on; here is some love to energise you now when you need it so much.' We know that another fellow human friend of ours might not be able to lift away our distressed feelings, but knowing that we are cared for and respected could give us the courage and strength to walk on.

As I reflected on the experience of my last visit to my family doctor, I realised that it was of trust that he has shared with me his struggles and emotions. I appreciate that I was treasured as one of his trusted good friends in his living days. As for now, I will always remind myself: 'Be grateful to be able to share a friend's sorrow as we have been trusted and respected as friend indeed'.


May God give us the grace and strength to support those in need and may He bless all angels that we meet in life. 

-Written on 27th October 2014

Letting Go


I did some readings and reflection about the wisdom to let go lately..

I recalled a wonderful sightseeing experience on a bus ride from Kota Kinabalu town to Keningau for a retreat in year 2010. We were greeted with beautiful mountain views along the journey, but there were also times when we saw only mist and rains. At some times, we were traveling on the narrow winding road... But, regardless of any condition we were in, we did move on in our journey towards the destination.

The reflection has enlightened me on how I should let go of some negative feelings and memories when they come to conscious mind. I could, instead of dwelling on them, appreciate and acknowledge them as just a view that I have encountered in the journey and choose to move on.

Joyce Rupp in her book "Praying Our Goodbyes" wrote, 'To let go does not mean that we give up or that we do not care. Rather, it means that we choose to use our energies in another way, giving them another direction. To let go is to allow something or someone to be left behind in such a way that we are free to continue toward new country that is awaiting to be revealed to us. It is to gain the freedom to proceed or to continue, to put behind us whatever has the power over us to negatively influence our feelings, ideas, actions.'

Each time when we could let go of an unpleasant feeling or memory, we will be more peaceful.

May God grant us the grace and courage to let go of our negativity.


- Written on 31st October 2013

Thursday, September 8, 2016

Jesus, Remember Me When You Come into Your Kingdom



The conversation between the suffering repentant sinner and the suffering Christ on the cross has been touching. It has been the source of solace for all suffering souls. Luke 23:42-43

And he (the sinner) said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom."
Jesus replied, "Truly, you will be with me today in the paradise."

Amidst our sufferings, do not abandon our Lord but take courage to learn from Christ who has humbled Himself to take up the cross.
When we could share in His sufferings, we too, could say "Lord, remember me when You come into Your Kingdom."

Surely, the risen Lord would grant us the strength to bear our cross and remember us in His Kingdom. Do not be dismayed! One day, we will join Him in the Paradise!


- Written on 24th November 2013